The Silent 'T': Malawi 'gay' couple facing 14 year's imprisonment

 

by B.J. Caldwell, Qlinks contributor

I have read many reports over the past few months about the gay couple in Malawi facing trial and imprisonment essentially for being gay ("unnatural acts"). Steven Monjeza and Tiwonge Chimbalanga have just received a sentence of 14 years hard-labour prompting another round of international 'outcry' (which in my opinion needs to be a little louder and a lot more effective...) against the criminalization of sexual orientation and gender identity.

What you may not have heard is that Tiwonge Chimbalanga identifies as trans (female). The media-- including the gay media-- has mainly been reporting on them as a 'gay couple' because that is how they are referred to and treated by the courts (as in many places, the law looks at genitals, not the actual gender identity of it's citizens). And perhaps why this story gained initial traction in the media (stories where the people involved are trans or intersex don't often get picked up/reported). GenderDynamiX, in South Africa, is a Human Rights organisation promoting freedom of expression of Gender identity and advocating for the rights of Transgender, transsexual and Gender Non-Conforming people have released a media statement:

According to Ian Swartz from OSISA (Open Society Institute of Southern Africa) Tiwonge Chimbalanga sees herself as a woman. "Tiwonge so clearly identifies as a woman and she has expressed her identity as such more often than not. I think if she knew the word Transgender she would come home to a world of understanding of herself" he said recently after visiting the couple in prison. A local activist who calls her "Aunty Tiwo" visited her too and to him she said: "I am just a woman who loves my man. I'd rather remain in prison than to be released into a world where I am kept away from Steven"

"Even though the identities of Tiwonge and Steven are misunderstood by the world we stand together with gay and lesbian activists in their work to try and get justice for our trans sister and her partner." Says Tebogo Nkoana outreach officer at Gender DynamiX.

 Autumn Sandeen over at Pamshouseblend had this to say, and I concur:

The Malawian couple has been charged and sentenced in relationship to having a homosexual relationship. The LGBT legacy and new media has picked up on the 14-year sentence based on the couple's relationship being declared homosexual by the judge who sentenced the couple. And let's be honest with ourselves -- I believe we can safely say that from past coverage by the LGBT press and LGBT blogosphere that this story would not have gained as much traction in LGBT media if this were considered a transgender or intersex story.
And, that's sad. Transphobia and homophobia both arise from the same root -- that root has to do a lot with lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex, and queer people not conforming with societal sex and gender norms...Especially societal sex and gender norms for those considered to be male. And, that root has a lot to do with misogyny.
But, the erasing of the woman in this story's intersex, transgender, and/or transsexual history from this story says a lot about the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community and its media
As an LGBT community, we should be standing in solidarity in support of this couple -- whether or not this couple are a pair of gay males or a transgender (or intersex) woman and a heterosexual (or bisexual) male.
Visibility matters. Telling LGBT and intersex stories as the stories these are instead of by a standard gay narrative matters -- We need to work harder to not change trans and intersex stories to gay stories.
Perhaps even better: tell the stories in the context of people within the broader LGBT community.
And, as one LGBT community standing in solidarity against both homophobia and transphobia -- as well as one LGBT community standing in solidarity standing against as misogyny, racism, abeleism, and other identity community expressions of hate -- well, that should really matter too.

 

 Too often in news and other venues, the 'T' remains silent (or is kept silent). Either we don't hear the stories at all, or we receive them distorted through the lens of the media's limited understanding of gender and sexual orientation, and many gay media's limited understanding of gender.

For a great argument as to why this is important check this out:

Once Again the T in LGBT is Silenced (The Guardian)

 

6 comments (Add your own)

1. Cassia wrote:
Hi all, A few of us gay seniors hlddue pitifully around each others' apartments. Although we can walk (or wheel) the half-mile to the Granite Reef Senior Center, our efforts to commence a LGBTQ Seniors group have failed. Homophobia especially strong here from the religious wrong in predominantly GOP Scottsdale, ARIZONA is disturbing. Haters here still get away with assaults on minorities of every stripe. No turning to a higher power like the Maricopa County Sheriff the infamous Joe Arpiao some say he and/or his posse members are some of the instigators! I don't know. Anyway, we do the best we can in our low income senior/disabled apartment complex. We have not been able to garner any interest in our plight from One Voice LGBTQ Community Center. They say to go there, but we are old & poor. They should come here we are waiting!PEACE & LOVE,Reed, PROGRESSIVE INTERNET ACTIVIST (not so active, anymore.)

Sat, March 31, 2012 @ 7:47 PM

2. Rayshelon wrote:
Rea: Thank you so much; I felt nothing but invigorated after attending the march and rally last Sunday, as well as the seventeen people, allies and LGBT, that were with me. I know that it has boosted me to keep being involved, keep advocating, keep fighting for what is right, for equality, for JUSTICE you have let me know that I am not wrong in that. Thanks for all that you do. Peace, Vanessa

Tue, April 10, 2012 @ 7:57 PM

3. Chamomile wrote:
We want to thank you for continuing this very important work. Volunteering your services is greatly appreciated. With the recent victory in New York, we remain hopeful. We have been waiting for nine years now. We hope everyone is energized by this recent state victory. Now we need a federal one. Please, on behalf of so many of us keep up the great work. Yours in the fight, Patrick and Maxim, Moscow, Russia

Wed, April 18, 2012 @ 11:50 PM

4. Roby wrote:
It is not a choice to be gay. It just is. There are Scouts there who are struggling with this issue and who fear the loneliness, discrimination and the loss of friends. It should not be this way but this is how it is in some places. For a Scout to see, meet and talk to someone who is comfortable with their lifestyle choice, adjusted and productive would be a great comfort. Everybody needs a role model. Some Scouts may not be able to even talk to someone with a rainbow button for fear of reprisal. Just as this Jambo experience may be the only opportunity a Scout from some countries to meet someone from another country or culture, it is the same regarding the LGBT issue. This may be the only time for some to meet a LGBT person safely. There is a time and place for everything. Maybe this might not be appropriate for younger scouts; however, we are dealing with young adults at Jambo. It is a confusing time for some kids. There is a high rate of suicide among teens struggling with sexual orientation issues. In Jambo we are promoting a safe environment for constructive conversation about all topics such as religion and culture. Why would this topic not be included as well? If you saved or helped one child or one young adult, wouldn t this conversation opportunity at Jambo be worth it? If you want Scouting to survive and impact young people into the 21st century then offer the opportunity of applying Scouting values of friendship, kindness, courtesy, respect etc to the discussion of this lifestyle option. I agree with the comments of Bjorn. If you need to get the boat to shore, does it really matter what the lifestyle is of the person who is padding?

Mon, April 23, 2012 @ 1:57 AM

5. Jera wrote:
Tracey, what the heck are you worried about when you say your relative should not be in a leader or advisor to young people. Having contact with gay people is not going to turn young people gay. If some of those young people turn out to be gay it s because they are anyway, and wouldn t it be great for them to have a good role model who is also gay.I have two kids in scouts, one at WSJ at the moment and one who has just returned from a local scout camp. Am I worried that they have contact with gay people there no I am not, because who ever they meet will open their eyes to new ideas and ways of thinking. This will enrich them as people and in the end they will be their own person.If one of them told me they were gay, I would totally accept them and embrace them . Would I be worried about them yes, not because of who they are but because they may encounter predjudice from others who can not live and let live.I am amazed that with all the emphasis at the WSJ about openning our eyes to new people and cultures that this discussion is even taking place.

Wed, April 25, 2012 @ 1:00 AM

6. Ladainian wrote:
This is a wonderful topic, Stevie. I have said for years, when did hatred and intolerance become the preaching of Jesus? Look at your red words in the New Testament (the words that Christ said) and tell me where he speaks to gay/lesbian children or to abortion. I m tired of Christian doubletalk and Christian self=righteousness. Watch a beautiful Christian for a while, like my sister Vicki, and you will see the true love of Christ.

Mon, April 30, 2012 @ 11:02 PM

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